The Process

Lydia and Shonagh met with a men’s group in Kilmarnock every Monday for a year to develop 'The Monday Men'. Made up of 11 men living with dementia or dementia-like symptoms at varying stages of diagnosis. The group leaders organise an array of guests to visit every week and provide different experiences, for example, Tai Chi, art classes, history talks, trivia, and (one of our favourite occasions) a police officer (who they all but interrogated). This culminated in a development week with the Ayr Gaiety in July 2022, and a sharing with the real Monday Men and their family and carers.

The Monday Men is our attempt to create a play that is both dementia friendly in process as well as in performance. During the process of creating the script, we have spent hours in the room conversing with the men and joining in with their weekly activities to ensure the play captures their voices and ideas. 

One week, over lunch, someone happened to drop into conversation a bank robbery - we discovered this group of men spent some of their Monday session time planning a bank robbery. Well, once we knew that there was only one thing to do - write a play about a group of men planning a bank robbery, on a Monday, of course.

During the course of the play, audience members are invited to join our actors on stage and become guest speakers, from police officers to bank tellers. In the second half of the play we invite the entire audience to join us in distracting the bank teller with a seated flashmob to allow our four gents to pull off the bank robbery, keeping the experience accessible for all in attendance. The real Monday Men made an appearance in the initial sharing as ‘The Back Up’, where they introduced themselves (in code, of course) and told us what their role in the robbery was.